As a big girl myself, for so long I deprived myself of the joy of sexting. I would get into it with all sorts of guys, and then when things got heated and they’d ask for nudes, I would freeze, get turned off, and back out of it. I was self-conscious about my body. That’s before I realized that my body was not the issue. The guys who were getting it on with me were genuinely into me. Surely, there are the chubby chasers who only like you for your extra curves. But most of the guys who are into you when you’re a BBW, they just like you for who you are. No need to hide from them.
You’ll eventually sleep with them and realize that they’re getting just as hard as they would for a skinny girl. And no need to overthink taking nudes of yourself. I finally did it with my now-husband when we were doing long distance. Here are some of the tricks that I used to make my body more flattering.
Close Up On The Titties
If you’re self-conscious about your belly and arms, but you have big old knockers, use them to your advantage. A close-up on the titties is so impactful in a sexting session. Men love big tits. And if the guy showing interest in you has a kink for how you look, it’s probably your breasts. So, if you like him and you want him to cum for you or to keep you on the edge until you cum yourself, lead him to a close-up pic of your knockers. It doesn’t even have to be a picture of them out in the open. They can be squeezed in a deep cleavage, or you can take a pornpic of them while you’re wearing a white T-shirt in the shower.
High Heels
High heels are very underrated for any woman out there. But they’re especially underrated for us, big girls. We tend not to wear them because they are impractical in public. But that doesn’t mean we can’t wear them indoors for our naughty play sessions. And let me tell you, the first time I put on high heels was the first time I actually liked my legs. Something about them makes my legs look amazing. And don’t even get me started on my booty. My ass is already round, so I got that going on for me, which is nice. But when I get myself up on some heels, it pops out like crazy. Just a pair of high heels makes me look like a porn star. I especially liked taking pictures of myself hiding behind my big ass and juicy things in high heels. I would face away from the camera and bend over until only my ass and legs would show in the picture.
Arch That Back
Uncomfortable with your belly? You know you can always arch your back and make it go away? I used to be so worried about taking close-ups of my pussy. And that’s a shame because I have a pretty pussy. But I felt like the pouch on top of it would turn off my sexting partner. That’s until I realized that I can take close-ups of my pussy while arching my back, and my belly kind of goes away. From that moment on, I experimented with so many other pornpics. That’s when I had the courage to take pictures of my whole body in many other positions. And all I had to do was arch my back.
Embrace The Fuppa
The best advice I can give you as a big girl is to finally embrace your body. Surely, it’s more comfortable to do it with a partner you can trust. I already had sex with my long-distance boyfriend (my now husband) before I was comfortable enough with sending him nudes. But after a while, I realized that he likes me for who I am, and now I don’t worry about how my body looks at all. I take photos of myself in all positions, even if my belly hangs. And my husband is always thrilled to get them whenever he is not next to me.
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